Yo Mama!.....

Yep! I said it... Yo Mama! Now before you go getting all offended and wanting to defend her honor, there are a few things you need to know about Yo Mama.

Many of us wonder why we live out certain patterns in our life. Why we act and react the way we do to certain circumstances. Why we have certain personality traits that we just cant seem to change. Its all because of ......  Yo Mama!

Our true way of being, at its deepest core, took form the moment we were conceived in our mother's womb. Our birth pattern began long before we took our first breath in this world. Depending on the internal and external circumstances in your mothers life during her pregnancy, your birth patterns can be marked by vicarious nuances given to you in the womb. 

I look at my youngest son's way of being and understand how my emotions and actions during my pregnancy with him have embedded patterns into his personal nature. I had a tumultuous relationship with his father which usually initiated arguing, crying and resentfulness on a daily basis. I remember several occasions during my pregnancy sitting in my bed weeping for hours. I was carrying my son in a toxic womb. A womb that was never in peace, always turned upside down and was seldom in balance. My spirit was consistently sending him coded messages that hurt feelings and suffering were the first things he would experience.

As a result, my son's most dominant pattern is his emotional sensitivity. As a young boy he would easily get his feelings hurt and seemed to cry about almost anything. As a teen, he now has deep seeded emotional bond with those he considers family and friends. He still tears up at things that touch his heart and is extremely loyal, even to those that may have hurt him in the past. He loves deeply and grieves even deeper.

When I recognized his pattern and realized I was the source of it, I immediately called My Mama! I asked her about her life during her pregnancy with me, even how she felt leading up to my birth. I asked her about the events that happened during my birth; were they rushing to the hospital, was it planned, were there any complications? Most of all, I asked her how she felt about my father. She was in love, they went to the hospital with no stress or chaos and my birth was seemingly normal. My fathers laid back nature helped put her at ease during her pregnancy and during the trip to the hospital. My mother spent much of her pregnancy working and planning her next move for her career. Which all explains why I don't get flustered about very many things and why I'm so focused on planning out my life. I was born into a love filled, peace filled, relaxed womb.

As a woman, I encourage you to take heed of your personal environment, your spiritual vibrations and your own personal birth patterns. Think about what you will give to your next growing seed. Your unborn child in-vibes every part of your spirit and absorbs every emotion within you. Every thought you have, every feeling you have, every urge you have...you share that with your child. Each child that is conceived has a purpose on this earth. Raising that child in a toxic womb will set forth birth patterns that they will spend their lives trying to overcome before they can truly fulfill their purpose. Why not make their lives a little easier by nurturing them in a peace filled womb; a womb of stillness and balance. A womb of love.

Now stop reading this blog and go have an inquisitive talk with Yo Mama! ♥



What birth patterns do you believe began when you were in the womb?? Leave your comments below.